How to Get a Puppy to Stop Biting

Ah, the puppy biting phase. If you’ve got a new pup at home, you’re probably all too familiar with those razor-sharp teeth and the unrelenting urge to chomp on anything that moves (including your fingers, shoes, and maybe your soul). It’s all part of growing up for dogs, but let’s be honest—it’s not the most fun stage for you.

So, how do you get your little furry friend to stop using your hand as a chew toy? Well, you’re in luck. I’ve got some tried-and-tested tips that should help you keep your fingers (and your sanity) intact while teaching your puppy some bite-free manners. Let’s dive right in!


Why Do Puppies Bite in the First Place?

Before you start looking for ways to stop this behavior, it’s important to understand why puppies bite in the first place. It’s not personal, I promise.

Natural Teething Process

Just like human babies, puppies go through a teething phase. When they’re around 3 to 4 months old, their baby teeth start to fall out and adult teeth begin to come in. During this period, they’ll chew on anything they can find to soothe their sore gums. So, yeah, your fingers and furniture might be the unfortunate victims here.

Exploring the World

Puppies are like little explorers, and they use their mouths to discover the world around them. Everything is a toy to them, and sometimes, everything includes your hands, arms, and legs. It’s part of the process, but I get it—it’s not exactly fun to be the victim of a puppy’s curiosity.

Lack of Bite Inhibition

Bite inhibition is the ability to control the force of their bite. Puppies aren’t born with this skill, and they need to learn it. If they’re not taught to control their biting, it could turn into a much bigger problem later on, especially as they grow stronger. So, let’s work on that!

Step-by-Step Guide to Stop Puppy Biting

Now that we know why puppies bite, let’s look at how to stop it. Here’s your game plan:

1. Provide Appropriate Chew Toys

First things first: you need to make sure your puppy has something appropriate to chew on. It’s like giving a toddler a toy instead of letting them chew on your shoes. When your puppy starts biting, redirect them to a chew toy instead.

Pro Tip: Choose toys that are durable and specifically designed for teething puppies. Those soft squeaky toys? Not ideal during teething—they’ll get shredded in no time.

Why this works: By providing an alternative, you're teaching your pup that there’s a big, fun world of chewable objects out there. Just make sure to keep your personal items out of reach!

2. Use Positive Reinforcement

This one is huge. Every time your puppy chooses a chew toy over your finger (bless them), give them a treat or praise. Positive reinforcement helps them understand that chewing on the right thing gets them rewards. You want them to associate good behavior with something positive. It’s like a puppy-sized version of bribery, but hey, it works.

Pro Tip: Keep treats handy and give a “good puppy” when they chew on their toy. The more consistent you are, the faster they'll get it.

3. Teach “No” and “Leave It”

Okay, now for some training magic. Teaching your puppy basic commands like “No” and “Leave it” will be your best friends when it comes to stopping biting.

  • No: This one’s self-explanatory. When your puppy starts biting, immediately say “No” in a firm (but not angry) tone.
  • Leave it: This command works wonders. When your puppy starts biting something they shouldn’t (ahem, like your hand), use “Leave it” and immediately offer a toy as a replacement.

Pro Tip: Puppies learn through repetition. It might feel like a broken record at times, but stick with it, and they’ll catch on faster than you think.

4. Use a Time-Out (But Don’t Overdo It)

Puppies often get excited and can’t control their urge to bite. When that happens, a time-out can help them understand that biting is no fun. Simply stop playing, calmly remove your hands from the situation, and turn away for a few seconds. The idea is to show them that biting stops the fun.

Pro Tip: Be careful not to make the time-out too long. A few seconds of ignoring them is all it takes to make your point. You don’t want your puppy to feel abandoned or punished—just momentarily bored.

5. Use a Deterrent Spray (If Needed)

If your puppy is really persistent and you just can’t seem to get them to stop, a deterrent spray might help. These sprays usually have a bitter taste that most dogs find unpleasant. You can use it on your hands or furniture to discourage biting.

Pro Tip: Be cautious when using sprays—make sure it’s safe for puppies and doesn’t cause irritation. Always test it on a small area first.

6. Socialization with Other Dogs

Socialization is key in teaching your puppy bite inhibition. When they interact with other dogs, they’ll learn quickly that biting too hard hurts, and they’ll get a correction from the other dog. You can set up playdates with other vaccinated puppies or attend puppy classes to give your dog these essential social lessons.

Pro Tip: Always supervise puppy playdates to ensure things don’t get too rough. We don’t want a full-on doggy WWE match in your living room.

How to Handle Playtime Without Biting

Playtime is a big part of a puppy’s development, but it can also lead to a lot of biting if you’re not careful. So, how do you have fun with your pup without getting your hands chewed on?

1. Use Toys to Guide Play

Instead of letting your puppy use your hands as chew toys, always have a toy handy. Tug-of-war, fetch, and other interactive games are great for bonding and using up some of that puppy energy.

2. Be Consistent

Consistency is key. Make sure every person in the household is on the same page when it comes to training. If one person lets the puppy nip and another corrects it, you’ll only confuse them. So, if you’re working on stopping the biting, make sure everyone’s following the same rules.

3. Avoid Rough Play

While wrestling around with your puppy might seem fun, it can encourage biting. Keep the play gentle, and never reward biting with more playtime. If your puppy starts getting too rough, take a break and calm down.

When to Seek Professional Help

If your puppy’s biting persists or becomes more aggressive, it might be time to call in the pros. A dog trainer can help you address the issue and provide guidance on training techniques that are specific to your puppy’s needs.

Red Flags to Watch Out For:

  • The biting is accompanied by growling or snapping.
  • Your puppy is too aggressive and doesn’t seem to be responding to training.
  • You feel uncomfortable or unsafe handling your puppy’s behavior.

Final Thoughts: Patience is Key!

Dealing with a biting puppy can be frustrating (and occasionally painful), but trust me, it’s just a phase. With patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement, your puppy will grow out of this habit—and maybe even be a little less bitey in the process.

So, hang in there! Your puppy’s teething days will be over before you know it, and you’ll be able to enjoy some hands-off playtime without worrying about getting nipped.

Good luck, and remember: it gets better! (But maybe keep some band-aids nearby just in case 😉).

About the author

Sidan Abdessamad
unofficial “Prime Minister” of Tuvalu 🏝️🇹🇻