Why Does My Cat Meow When I’m In the Shower?

 Why Does My Cat Meow When I’m in the Shower?

And Other Furry Bathroom Mysteries Uncovered


So, You’re Just Trying to Shower in Peace, and Here Comes the Serenade…

You step into the shower, crank the water on, start humming your favorite tune—and there it is:
That mysterious, slightly dramatic, borderline operatic “meowwwwww.”
Every. Single. Time.

What’s the deal? Why does your cat suddenly turn into Pavarotti the moment you disappear behind that shower curtain? 😹

If you’ve asked yourself this (and let’s be real—Googled it at least once while dripping wet), you’re not alone. Let’s dive (ugh, I hate that phrase, but here we are) into the world of feline weirdness and decode this bath-time behavior.



🐾 It’s Not Just You—This Is a Thing

Your Cat Isn’t Just Being “Extra” (Well… Maybe a Little)

Cats meowing when their humans are in the shower is weirdly common. It's like there’s a secret Cat Union Memo that goes out: “Initiate Yelling Protocol whenever hooman disappears into water chamber.”

But guess what? There’s actual logic (cat logic, anyway) behind it.

Let’s break it down.


1. You Disappeared—and Cats HATE That

Cats + Control Issues = A Shower-Time Crisis

Cats are creatures of routine. They like knowing where you are, what you're doing, and whether you're about to open a can of tuna. So, when you vanish behind a curtain and sound like you’re fighting a rainstorm, your cat might:

  • Think you’re in danger (“Why are you letting that water attack you?!”)
  • Panic that you’re gone forever (Even though you're literally 6 feet away)
  • Feel left out (Cats: If I can’t see you, I don’t trust you)

Ever wondered why they sit outside the bathroom door too? Same reason. You’re on their turf. You’re not allowed to have private time. Deal with it. 😼


2. The Water Sounds? Yeah, Those Are “Suspicious”

Cats Don’t Trust Running Water

Here’s a fun fact: Most cats are not fans of water—unless they’re drinking it from your glass instead of their bowl, obviously. 🙄

So when they hear:

  • Loud splashes
  • Gurgling pipes
  • That “waterfall” sound of the shower

Their instinct kicks in. “Danger! Why is the hooman getting wet ON PURPOSE?”

Cue: Meowing. Loudly. Repeatedly. Possibly while pacing outside the door like a tiny, judgmental guard dog.


3. Separation Anxiety Is Real (Even If They Act Like They Don’t Care)

Spoiler: They Do Care

Cats pretend they’re independent. But the second you close a door between you and them?
Meltdown. Emotional damage. Betrayal. Full Shakespearean tragedy.

If your cat:

  • Follows you from room to room
  • Sleeps on your laptop
  • Screams when you leave the house
  • Or meows when you shower

They might have mild separation anxiety. Yep, even the sassiest fluffball can be a secret softie.

IMO? It’s kind of sweet. Annoying, but sweet.


4. They Hate Doors—Like, A Lot

A Closed Door = Personal Offense

Want to see a cat lose it? Close a door in their face.

Cats don’t understand doors. They think of the entire house as their space. So when you:

  • Close the bathroom door
  • Close the bedroom door
  • Or (God forbid) lock them out of a room

They take it personally. As in, “Excuse me, are you hiding snacks in there?!”

The meowing might just be their way of saying: “Hey! Let me IN.”


5. They’re Trying to “Help” You

You Know…In Their Very Cat Way

Some cats aren’t just meowing to complain. They genuinely think something’s wrong.

You’re in a noisy place. Behind a curtain. With water falling on your head.

From their POV? That’s a red flag.

So they:

  • Yell at you to stop
  • Try to paw open the curtain
  • Or pace and howl until you emerge from “the wet box of doom”

“I saved you again, hooman. You’re welcome.”


6. They Just Want Attention (Duh)

Drama = Attention = Winning

Let’s face it. Some cats are drama queens.

And when they realize that meowing while you’re showering = immediate attention (even if it's just yelling, “OH MY GOD, FLUFFY, STOP IT”), they’ll keep doing it.

Because:

  • Meowing = response
  • Response = victory
  • Victory = happy cat

FYI: You’ve probably trained them without meaning to. 😉


7. Bathroom Acoustics = Meow Amplifier

It’s Not Just Loud. It’s Echo-Loud.

Ever notice how your cat sounds louder in the bathroom? That’s not in your head.

Tiled bathrooms are basically built-in echo chambers. So when your cat lets out a sad little “maowww” near the bathroom door, it echoes and feels more dramatic.

Almost like they know it’ll get your attention faster…

Coincidence? I think not.


8. The Shower Is “Weird Energy” Time

And Cats Feel That

You might be thinking, “Come on, it’s just a shower.” But think about it:

  • You go in fully clothed.
  • You come out soaked and sometimes singing.
  • Everything smells different.
  • Steam clouds the air.

To your cat? It’s like you walked into a portal. The energy changes, and cats are super sensitive to shifts in their environment.

So yeah, they meow. Because they’re confused, mildly horrified, and probably just want their predictable world back.


So… What Can You Do About It?

If You’re Over the Shower Serenades

If your cat’s meowing is driving you nuts, here are a few things you can try:

✅ Leave the Door Open (If You Dare)

  • They’ll probably hop on the toilet lid and judge you silently instead of yelling.

✅ Give Them a Distraction

  • Toss a treat puzzle or toy into another room before your shower.
  • Bold tip: Food always wins. Every time.

✅ Ignore the Meowing (Tough Love)

  • If you respond every time, they’ll keep doing it.
  • Consistency is key. And yeah, it sucks.

✅ Bring a Bed Near the Bathroom

  • Sometimes they just want to be close.
  • Put their bed or blanket near the door so they can chill within earshot.

Is It Ever a Sign of Something Serious?

Rarely. But Still, Keep an Eye Out.

If your cat:

  • Meows excessively all day
  • Seems distressed or aggressive
  • Starts avoiding other rooms or acting weird

Then yeah, check with a vet.
But if it’s just the shower meowing? Welcome to the club.



In Conclusion: Your Shower = Their Personal Crisis

Cats are weird, wonderful, slightly narcissistic little creatures.
When they meow during your shower, it’s probably a mix of:

  • Confusion
  • Annoyance
  • Separation anxiety
  • And, let’s be real, a bit of flair for the dramatic

But underneath all that noise? It means they care. In their own fuzzy, slightly chaotic way.

So next time you’re in the shower and hear the familiar MEOOOWWW, just smile and say:

“I’m okay, buddy. I’m not drowning. Go lick the sink or something.” 😹


P.S. Ever had your cat jump in the shower with you? If so… I need to hear that story. Seriously.


TL;DR (Because Hey, You Might Be Reading This In the Shower)

  • Your cat meows because they don’t like being separated
  • Running water = evil
  • Bathrooms are “no hooman-only” zones
  • They might think you’re in danger
  • Or they just want your attention—like always

Bottom line?
You’re not alone, and your cat is not broken. Just adorably dramatic. ❤️


Still curious about your cat’s behavior? I’ve got more cat logic decoded coming soon. Stay tuned, fellow feline friend. 🐾

About the author

Sidan Abdessamad
unofficial “Prime Minister” of Tuvalu 🏝️🇹🇻